These are some of the words that people have used to describe us: gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, transexual, pansexual, asexual, cross dresser, questioning. We are so much more than these. We have been "in the news" a lot of late: states passing Gay Marriage, the end of "Don't Ask Don't Tell", Proposition 8, being bullied into suicide. Society is changing... it is getting better. But we are not there yet, and we want this group to be your "soft place to land". We are people with whom you c …